Experiences - swim's chances at getting laid?

[shanesmith7]

swim has never rolled before (or used any stimulant), but swim's romantic interest (who might like him, swim hasn't made a move) has agreed to take ecstasy with him (she has done it once before) and now recently has become eager (as enthusiastic as swim) about procuring some. swiy said the first time she took ex she got really horny and wanted to hump a wall.... again swiys spend alot of time together and have intimate conversations but haven't moved to the next level.

recently swiys spend sunset at a beach and she asked if swiys could take it there at the same time and of course swim said yes. do you think things will get intimate after swim and swiy take a little e?

[JesseXTC]

haha swim loves to make out and fool around on x it's the best effing feeling ever like it engulfs ur body and u just NEED IT but swims heard some horror stories about never being able to enjoy sober sex once doing it on x? anyone else hear this? I had the opportunity to try but the guy was kinda sketchy and wouldn't quit telling swim to take more pills and was kind of a creep. wow now that swim thinks about it he shouldn't have even been around that guy lol anyways kisses and touching are amazing and put one in the mood just be safe!

[Sameria]

If what you are trying ask is if MDMA will force sexual relations, It won't. Not unless SWIY has some desire to do this regardless of the drug.

What the drug WILL do is lower anxiety, inhibitions and promote any feeling/urges that your female companion already has towards you.

Hope it all works out well

[terrapinzflyer]

FFS man, just do it. your post is a little creepy and borders on the whole "date rape drug" side of things
does swiy want your first sexual experience together to be the result of drugs? (ok, this may be the pot calling the kettle black, but unless drugs are an an important part of swiy's life, which from your post it doesn't seem they are, it feels like a wrong step)
Also remember, mdma tends to prevent orgasm, which can be a good thing, but for a first time could be frustrating/disappointing and could also lead to future unrealistic expectations
Finally, if swiy isn't connected into the mdma world swiy may well end up with pills containing who knows what...

So, swims turtles advice- if you want to have sex with this woman just go for it. If you guys click there will be plenty of chances to experience while on mdma.

[JesseXTC]

swim thinks that under the influence of "MDxx" one's inhibitions will surely be lowered, and things that one may not do normally could occur under the influence... but a chemically induced first experience isnt one that will be memorable or may not even be reflecting real feelings, so swim would suggest taking substance x with said girl, but dont have expectations such as these, and try asking her out on a date, sober, and having conversations/getting to know her sober, and let things move along from there

xo

Jesse

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[actarus]

mdma is well known as the love drug and not the sex drug.
swim has rolled several times but never felt horny or keen of sex. He felt a huge beautiful emphaty, connection (to people), love towards his friends and the world itself but while rollin he doesnt even care about sex.
for the record, he tried to have sex but couldnt, he just could not get it up.

[RaverHippie]

My raver friend recently had the best sex ever rolling with his girlfriend. Maintaining an erection was no more difficult than normal and that was always the fear going into it.

[subliminal1987]

heya buddy
most of swim's male friends that pop a couple of e's find it hard to get hard.
swim does get rather 'in the mood' but whilst on e's, even music makes swim 'in the mood' (disregard how silly that sounds lol).
If swiy does end up having sex with this girl, will she be alright with it when she comes down?
also, smiy might not be able to get hard and that might be embaressing on your part.

but swim has had sex with her bf on pills (not everyone stays placid every time)
and its rather excilerating. and it dosn't take away from sex any other time - its just another realy fun experience.

GL buddy. dont pressure her though.
ps: woulnt the sand at the beach be annoying to wash off before sex?
just curious ^_^

[porchy]

Don't go with the intention of getting laid. Just see what happens and play it cool.

[bimmer]

Originally Posted by porchy

Don't go with the intention of getting laid. Just see what happens and play it cool.

werd, you dont want to push anything, might cause a bad trip and bad vibes between you... a little suggestion and taking cool is the best idea.

also SWIM heard that its VERY hard to get wood while on E.

DO NOT try to mitigate erection difficulty with Viagra. SWIY might die... NEVER mix the two.

[Roads]

SWIY can definately get lucky with his partner on E. Ecstasy is both a stimulant and empathogenic chemical and can easily make two people feel like they are in love with each other in addition to possible heightened sexual feelings. It will also likely make both SWIY and his rolling partner not just wanting physical intimacy from eachother, but a powerful emotional connection in between each other as well.

SWIM must caution SWIY about the actually % of ecstasy found in his tablets and not to misjudge the dosage. Also, SWIM warns to not be dissapointed if the effects on his female friends sex drive are not noticeble. Furthermore SWIM must caution against the fact, like a few other SWIMMERs have posted, that some people who do sexual things while rolling experience such an intense series of pleasurable feelings, that they may feel like the sexual pleasure they experience after "just isn't the same" or isn't as "good" as it was at the time. SWIM suspects the fraying of receptors, or that the large, abnormal release of seratonin, dopamine, norepinephrine, oxytocin, vassopressin and similar chemicals causes some level of damage to the neurons/synapses/brain-stuff involved. However; SWIM, despite his theories, suspects the aforementioned, now newly coined, "greatest-pleasure-once" phenominon to be largely psychological.

SWIM suspects that SWIY's female friend wants to take E with him because she's already attracted to him, and thus has some level of trust in him already; enough trust to want to do illegal drugs with SWIY anyway.

SWIM is curious if this girl really likes SWIY, and if she knows about the empathogenic powers of rolling, and that perhaps she has a plot to make SWIY fall in love with her by doing E together? lol

If SWIY's pills are a quality product and haven't been cut with something poisonous, or substituted with caffeine or something, it will likely stimulate a number of strong feelings of euphoria, contentment, hope, trust, bonding, affection, admiration, lust/hornyness, love (love for yourselves, eachother, others around you especially, and perhaps even towards/from a spiritual being or deity if you're religious) and a general feeling of emotional or spiritual closeness with those around you; if you both experience stuff like that, it may appear that the most natural way to act on feelings like that is to make love with each other.
- SWIM notes here that MDMA is used in couples therapy trials to help struggling partners find that "spark" of love again.

Bottom line is, yes SWIY can easily get laid if he rolls with a girl because her sex drive and general romantic interest in SWIY will probably be greatly exaggerated. SWIM notes that any feelings SWIY and his lady friend have for each other will no doubt come to the surface during their time rolling, SWIM suspects that if both parties are first time users (which SWIY stated he is), then sex may not even be something that happens.
-What SWIM means is, it very well may make SWIY and partner very horny; but at the same time it's very easy to take Ecstasy and sit there rubbing your body against, feeling and admiring the texture of a comfy couch for several hours; just as easy as it is to get horny and fool around. On the other side, you could experience such a profound euphoria and overall extreme level of happiness/hope/contentment that sexual activity becomes an irrelevant afterthought in your mind.

note: SWIM must warn that an erection could be impossible while rolling, or even more likely it will be somewhat unreliable. It is also possible SWIY could experience no amount of sexual difficulty, and could even find his erection and sexual desire greatly augmented by the drug. SWIY must understand that different individuals are effected differently. SWIM notes that with ecstasy and similar stimulants (amphetamine/meth), his genitals often 'shrink' a little bit, and gaining/maintaining an erection could be a challenge. If such an unfortunate handicap were to befall SWIY's member, SWIM would still recommend pleasing the lady, as it should be relatively easy for SWIY to give his female a great deal of pleasure and satisfaction. SWIY should also know that even if an erection can be obtained and sex is had on E, it could be extremely difficult, if not impossible, to have an orgasm or ejaculate AT ALL. SWIY should NOT EVER take a male sexual performance enhancing drug while using ecstasy or similar drugs, complications and interactions could be fatal or cause any number of unknown problems.

Finally SWIM recommends drinking a lot of water before, during and after to avoid dehydration, physically soften the crash, and help mitigate other unknown but possible unpleasantness. The cottonmouth can happen rapidly, and can produce a pretty gnarly case of halitosis if SWIY isn't careful; because of this SWIM further recommends mints/gum throughout the night, especially the really "wet" kind that hydrate the mouth when chewed.

[anarquista420]

ive never been able to get it up on e. but its not all about that either, my advice would be just use this as an opportunity to get closer and then screw later. Or at least wait for her to make the first move because her asking you to roll does show a certain level of trust and it would be a bummer if you were not on the same page and didnt find out until you were already under the influence. Getting shot down your first time rolling could potentially be catastrophic.

having said that, good luck, i hope all goes well

[freshacejay]

swim suggests to be carefull. Swim has never had sex on mdma simply because he can not get an erection. would not want her to be all horny and you not able to perform.... anyway, like said above, fooling around is awesome and swim would try to have a great time regardless of weather or not swiys end up having sex or not...

cheers

[holdout]

on the loss of social inhibition side of things, SWIM can guarantee SWIY they won't hesitate one bit to finally make a move :P

[SparkyMarky]

SWIM tells me that he's only been taking Mandy (MDMA) for three years - and, over the last couple of weeks due to the dearth of decent Mandy, he's been trying methylone and rather quite liking it - and that the best sex he's had in his life has been whilst Mandyfied.

As others have commented, Mandy gives you a huge sense of euphoria and emotional connectedness, along with lowered inhibitions. It promotes tactility, making you want to touch and caress and massage. SWIM really gets off on lots of facial and eye contact during sex - which can last for absolutely bloody hours, with lots of breaks to chill, drink, smoke (combining Mandy with spliffs - which make SWIM hornier and 'dirtier' - is just the dog's bollocks for SWIM!!), dance and chat.

SWIM says he's regularly taken Viagra - necessary for stiffies - without any problems. He admits, however, to foolishly having used poppers at the same time. Whilst they can give you an immense rush and boost to the Mandy effect, they can be risky to take with Viagra, particularly if you have low blood pressure: SWIM admits to having fainted on one occasion when combining poppers and Viagra - nothing to do with the Mandy. BE CAREFUL COMBINING THE TWO: THEY CAN KILL!!!!! SERIOUSLY.

The major downside, however, is that 'sober' sex - without Mandy - just no longer compares for SWIM: he tells me that a couple of months ago, he and a guy he'd met had absolutely the bestest night, both of them on Mandy and spliffs. Absolutely fantastic. SWIM and the guy met up again a week or so later, this time with just a bit of alcohol. And SWIM was bitterly disappointed - it was one of the worst, most uninvolving, most mechanical shags he's ever had. It was all over in twenty minutes, compared to the six hours of the original 'session'.

SWIM admits that this was probably due to realising that, without Mandy, he and the guy actually had very little in common, no real emotional - or sexual - connection, and that the Mandy gave a (false) sense of there being one.

Between two (or more - LOL!) people who *do* have a connection, Mandy is fantastic for sensuality/sexuality. Even between people with no real connection, it can still give a great experience. But keep in mind that 'e-shags' don't necessarily translate to 'non-e-shags': SWIM says he's had a few occasions where Mandyfication made him think: 'Wow! I wanna see this guy again!' but was then very disappointed when he did.

Mandy encourages openness and experimentation but - at least for SWIM - doesn't lower inhibitions to stupid levels (ie SWIM always practices safer sex, and Mandy has never encouraged him to bareback).

SWIM says 'Go for it!' and have a great time, but be aware that e-sex might not translate to the real world when SWIY hasn't got drugs swimming (pun intended) around in SWIY's system. In fact, SWIM says, it's actually worth mentioning this to SWIY's partner during the trip, just so's you're both aware of it.

Happy shagging!!

Sparky
xx

PS SWIM adds: on low doses of Mandy, SWIM finds that it *is* possible to cum, but can take aaaaaaaaaaages! On medium to higher doses, despite the sensation of 'Almost there.... almost there.... almost there..... damn! Almost there.... almost there..... etc etc' it's virtually impossible. But SWIM doesn't mind - on Mandy, he says, it's the journey, not the destination, that becomes important....