Opinions - Shall I end the reletionship?

[rhys1705]

Havn't been on this forum in about 2 years and recently iv'e been viewing posts from people and weirdly, the same story seems to be emerging.
SWIM's thinking of stopping his cannabis use, for various reasons.

For one, he finds that he doesnt get anywhere near the same high he used to get with his friends all those years back where they would hang out and have a great giggly night and get up to all sorts, and even when they all started driving it was still fun blazing in cars etc nut now he feels like they cannot even meet up anymore without smoking, even if theyre not high, it puts SWIM ona downer sometimes as it seems to have lost it's fun.

Reffering back to the high, recently swim has been having bad episodes where he would smoke and feel very sick, vision would go fuzzy and dizzy and he would need to lye or sit down whilst his heart was beating erratically and adrenaline going, although this phase passes in an hour or so, it still puts him off smoking.

Although swim still sees himself as the same socialble and friendly person he always was (he never lets cannabis alter his personality) he finds people he used to know are less interested in him as they assosiate him with the cannabis using, and doesnt get the attention off girls he once used to get.

Does he need a break or is it time to end the reletionship for good?