A Mum looking for advice.....son smokes cannabis

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Hi All

Just joined and wanted to ask some advice if I may. My son is 20 and lives at home with just me. He has smoked cannabis heavily in the past but in the last year has cut down a lot. However, his past cannabis use had caused a lot of problems and friction and I would rather he not smoke any at all or at least, not smoke in my house. His view is different and he seems to choose to continue to smoke it once or twice a week.

My problem is that he is currently doing well at college and seems happy with his lifestyle. Most of the problems and friction caused by his past heavy use have mostly subsided......so, do I accept that this is what he is going to do and be grateful that his life is in better shape in spite of his current occasional use or do I 'stick to my guns' and insist that he stop using altogether or move out as I really dislike the stuff and it will always bring back such bad memories of the distress it caused in the past?

Advice and comments would be much appreciated to help me put all this in perspective.

Many thanks