voyeur neighbour

[F.U.B.A.R]

Swim is a cola user he regularly uses at home aswell as when hes out on the town. the cola makes swim horny as hell. one night whilst his wife was asleep he noticed that the house opposite had afemale only in her bra. with the coke driving his curiosity he watched while she undressed. this happened again a few more times until one time the girl waved beforeshe put on the show. this got swim going and has been experiencing these shows now for more than a month each one getting more daring and erotic. although swim loves this he feels that he is as much adicted to the shows as he is on coke and will buy a gram or two just to make the experience even more hornier. what should swim do although he likes it his wife would not

[Fantasian]

This suggests to me that SWIY needs to look at why he feels he needs to watch a neighbour undress rather than his wife. This is clearly a temptation SWIY needs to deal with personally or it could develop into something more, unless of course he wants to. THe cocaine is potentially making this issue worse because SWIY has taken cola everytime for this occasion therefore posatively renforcing the idea in his mind with a huge rush of dopamine. Thereby in brain chemistry telling SWIY to ensure he does this again and again.

In simple terms, make a decision which is more important.

[F.U.B.A.R]

Swim loves his wife very much and she has a body to die for which SWIM enjoys after the shows but its exciting. any hot blooded male would have a second look. swims wife may enjoy it aswell but there is a chance she might kick swims head in and niceley ask him to fuck off. prob a mix of the cola and the excitement. swim has started looking forward to it tonights the night

[Coconut]

Originally Posted by F.U.B.A.R

Swim loves his wife very much and she has a body to die for which SWIM enjoys after the shows but its exciting. any hot blooded male would have a second look. swims wife may enjoy it aswell but there is a chance she might kick swims head in and niceley ask him to fuck off. prob a mix of the cola and the excitement. swim has started looking forward to it tonights the night

I agree, there is nothing wrong with looking, but if it takes priority over one's lover then it becomes a problem. Why cannot SWIY look at his wife in this manner? Because there is a certain animalistic attraction to the forbidden?

If SWIY is able to stop this behaviour and not repeat it then there is no need to mention it to his wife. Perhaps cutting back on or quitting cocaine will help.

If it continues it may be necessary for SWIY to let his wife know. She may be understanding and perhaps by talking about it SWIY and his wife will be able to think of something to completely replace his habit of watching the neighbour.

[sylenth]

hey a free erotic show across the view from ur home is all good. talk about a variety of entertainment... convenience could'nt get better? smurf also had this kind of thing before when he was younger, 'but with out drugs' it all depends as fantasian said... it can remain innocent or it can become something else, what kind of morals do you go by? the choice is yours... there is many members on the forum who masturbate whilst on coke so this seems very chill imo.

sylenth added 1 Minutes and 34 Seconds later...

it depends how open minded your relationship with ur lady is too... maybe your secret spy game between each other is as good as it has to get, smurf loves flirting but it does'nt go further than that as smurf knows his relationship boundaries do's and dont's. you be the judge.

[The Lord of the Sea]

I shouldn't imagine the wife would be too pleased. Tellling your wife just before you have sex that the fit neighbour has got you horny is probably a mistake.

[fiveleggedrat]

My opinion is to go one way or the other. As in pick one.

Generally, having more than one thing going on at once tend to produce feelings of guilt that cause lots of problems, at the very least, emotionally, down the road.

The above does not apply if you have an open relationship, or no emotions

[Panthers007]

I have a lovely pair of lesbian lovers across the way. They absolutely refuse to lower their shade. They have ruined many an innocent night of start-gazing for me. Though they did comment on the size of my telescope...

[Junket]

Originally Posted by Panthers007

I have a lovely pair of lesbian lovers across the way. They absolutely refuse to lower their shade. They have ruined many an innocent night of start-gazing for me. Though they did comment on the size of my telescope...

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Anyways..

You got to really look at what you're doing and figure if thats really the kind of guy you want to be to your wife..

get your mind right man

[F.U.B.A.R]

swim has been away on holiday and hoped to put the situation to bed( sorry for the pun) he even re arranged the furniture as not to add to the temptation. all has been well foir the last few days until swim was getting in the car in the morning and the girl called over. i havent seen you for a few days.................and that same evening with it on swims mind he got a show of mighty proportions. swim has realised that nothing can come of this but if its afree show... and swim bieng an opportunist. bring it on it saves going to Amsterdam!!!!!!! swims relationship with his wife is still very strong and swim now only sees this situation as 5 star porn. the only thing that worried swim is that what is the next move of the girl??? the shows get more erotic and they go on for longer and there is nothing he aint seen. does that suggest like some maniac the girl is getting outta control??? but what does swim do MOVE?

[Coconut]

Originally Posted by F.U.B.A.R

swim has been away on holiday and hoped to put the situation to bed( sorry for the pun) he even re arranged the furniture as not to add to the temptation. all has been well foir the last few days until swim was getting in the car in the morning and the girl called over. i havent seen you for a few days.................and that same evening with it on swims mind he got a show of mighty proportions. swim has realised that nothing can come of this but if its afree show... and swim bieng an opportunist. bring it on it saves going to Amsterdam!!!!!!! swims relationship with his wife is still very strong and swim now only sees this situation as 5 star porn. the only thing that worried swim is that what is the next move of the girl??? the shows get more erotic and they go on for longer and there is nothing he aint seen. does that suggest like some maniac the girl is getting outta control??? but what does swim do MOVE?

SWIY should ask her firmly to stop. He should tell her that he loves his wife and cannot be tempted by another woman. I agree that it is not dissimilar to porn but the fact is that she lives only several metres away; who is to say that there will be no temptation to take this further in the future?

Would SWIY's wife be understanding if she found out about this? Could she help SWIY overcome this? Again, if this only happens while on coke, SWIY should consider quitting or cutting back.

[sylenth]

i have the same views regarding the amsterdam scenery. as for moving that's a little extreme, dont move... if she gets weird by blowing her cover some how in front of your wife or gets mif cos it's not going any where you can pleed insanity on her side. it'll only make your wife want you more cos she knows others have their eye on ya. unless you have ever given her reason to believe there was a possibility you were unfaithful to her in the past. then that's a whole different kind of game which i have'nt played & can't give insight on...