Losing Virginity on Drugs

[hippie_lain]

i dont even remember the night i lost my virginity. i just woke up next to a rather cute girl, shrugged my shoulders and called it good. Its kind of sad in a way that i cant remember it but theres always next time..lol

[chemlove]

I wouldn't do it sometimes drugs by themselves have a way of making people feel awkward, and so does sex especially the first time. I would surely say if you just enjoyed your first time for what it is, then enjoy your compounds at a later date, you'll have 2 good times instead of 1 really awkward time

[((NeVeReVeReVeN))]

i think its best to have sex sober your first time, i know first hand that when your TO high it gets harder to "Rise" to the occasion. when im hella high my minds all over the place and its to difficult to focus on fucking. And if you really want to remember it dont do xanax or other mind erasers on your first time. But a little alcohol and a little coke does make it more fun, for me atleast.

[moda00]

I agree with chemlove about the awkwardness- your first time having sex and your first time using substances should not be combined. But if one is an experienced user of something like say pot, and chooses to have sex for the first time under its influence, that's a li'l different.

Swim lost hers on alcohol. She lost it to a close friend who was already sexually experienced, and they decided to ahve sex while they were both sober, in addition to mutually agreeing to use a condom. During the actual act, swim was pretty intoxicated, and doesn't remember much, other than flashes of it, but she is happy with how it turned out as planned. Spontaneity can be good, but can also be regrettable if that spontaneity is induced by chemical stupor.

After losing her virginity, swim and said partner went on to become fuck buddies sober, high on pot, high on coke, etc. and it was all pretty good. Swim is glad she got the first (mostly painful and awkward) experience out of the way while trashed and with a trusted partner.

Later, when she got involved in a serious relationship, the sex was fantastic because they both knew what they were doing, which is a good thing.

Swim has had one sexual experience she doesn't remember, but had to be told about the next day. She was blacked out on alcohol and about 5-6mg alprazolam/xanax, and remembers nothing of it. She doesnt remember if she consented, she doesn't remember if there was a condom (likely not, since the guy was just as loaded). She can't say she "regrets" it, because she doesn't even remember it. But it's definitely an experience that she could have gone without and not been any worse off. But the dude was a friend and it's not like she resents him or blames him- when you get that fucked up, things are bound to happen. C'est la vie.

Swim doesn't recommend sexual experiences high with a new partner, or sexual experiences on a new substance in most cases.. but once you are experienced with both your partner (preferably a boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse) and have gained that level of trust, and have experienced altered consciousness enough to trust yourself with such substances, swim thinks this is an ideal context for sexual exploration with different chemicals- especially the psychedelics. In PIKHAL and TIKHAL the Shulgin's talk openly about their relationship and their chemical experiences and how both have affected their sexual and emotional interactions- very forthright and honest, and worth reading in swim's opinion. This is the kind of relationship swim aspires to, both with a life partner and with her use of chemicals.

[infekt]

SWIM lost his virginity pretty much sober, a little stoned but i dont really think it affected it much. This was a time when SWIM smoked weed about 4-5 times a day...so it would've been pretty inescapable to not be stoned and to have sex at the time..

I think, though too much benzos can erase your memory and leave you with a blank where your supposed to have this great memory, a little bit of xanax or whatnot would be OK for the first time. It'll get rid of the anxiety at least a little bit. Someone's first time should be as enjoyable as possible, not ruined by insecurities and self consciousness. I had a great time my first time, I wasn't nervous at all once things started heating up. But I can see where anxiety could ruin the experience...

[static_vodka_420]

swim did...weed and methadone...swim liked it

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thanks for responding, but try to elaborate a bit if possible

[captainship]

so, what's everyone's thoughts on a girl losing it after taking some E?

[Orion, R.I.P]

SWIY should be an experienced sex-haver before having sex on drugs. That way SWIY can ENJOY it and KNOW what SWIY is doing.

[PingoTango]

"sex-haver" - good one

Seriously, how many SWIMs can say they were totally sober (not drunk, not high), when they first started experimenting with sex?

For SWIM, it was the third or fourth time he'd ever got drunk, with a girl who was affectionately known by her peers as Bograt.

If it weren't for alcohol and drugs, SWIM would probably still be innocent

[Orion, R.I.P]

Haha, Thanks.

Swim can say that she was totally sober the first few years of her sexual experiences.
Got real good at it.
Now swim has sex whenever she wants, drugs or not.

[AmIHighYet]

SWIM was high when she lost her vaginal virginity, shit happens..

SWIM was NOT high when she lost her anal virginity, SWIM wishes she had been on something.

[PsychoActivist]

SWIM lost his virginity on Dextroamphetamine.

[cra$h]

sex = fun
drugs = awsome
sex+drugs = fuckin' awsome!!!

Swim first fucked sober, and busted within seconds. Nothing a lady wants to hear, and it wasn't all the hype people made it.
Then the second time, was on the comedown of a couple lines of coke, and it was......GREAT! swim lasted forever, and could control when he was "done", and in the first account of man history, SHE said she was done. This is when swim's like, eh, alright, I'll finish in a couple seconds.

So drugs make sex increadible, much better than it already is, but when it comes to losing one's virginity, it's at their own descresion. Swim personally would rather have been on a mild dose of opiates, or hallucenogens, but swim's notorious for being a little druggie, so take it with a grain of salt, or what ever that expression is.

[e4rolls]

SWIM believes that many hot girls have lost thier virginity while on MDMA, Cocaine and Methamphetamine.
Or at least SWIM hopes this to be true.
SWIM is a pervert, bad SWIM!

SWIM was sober his first time.
SWIM had a vanilla experience.
....lame
If SWIM could choose a drug and do it all over he would have fucked his girlfriend on meth for sure while watching hardcore porn.

[matchaca]

SWIM lost his virginity on acid and it was quite good, last longer then he would expect for the first time, but it was SWIM's experience someone else may not have the same feelings, I think that the best thing to do is to lose it sober and then do it with all the combinations you wish....

[armatage_shanks]

Swim lost his when he was stone cold sober.

Almost every time since then he has been under the influence of something, and each time after the first time was better.

[static_vodka_420]

swim was on oxycodone general area of 80mg, alcohol, cannabis, morphine 30 mg
swim however was allready a complete opiate junkie at this point(swim was allready addicted by age 14) he thinks the opiates just made him last longer instead of be unable to perform sence he was using them every day he was using alcohol and cannabis everyday as well.

[Tony Williams]

Go for a drug like GHB and/or coke. You wanna feel real horny or with GHB you would in theory be more relaxed and last alot longer.

Don't do this of course because it's illegal but this would be true if your imgainary friend wanted to know.

[UnlikleyHedonist]

SWIM lost her virginity after taking some E pills.
SWIM was had taken E many times and wasnt even rolling good for some reason. SWIM does wonder what impact the pills had on the experiance but it was a fine experiance and she doesent really regret it or anything. The sex itself was good but other aspects of the night are just plain weird to think about lol. SWIM does think it wasnt a good decison for other reasons (didnt know the guy well, but he was very nice) but swim is known for making decisons without thinking about them even when sober.

[el burgo]

SWIM lost SWIMS virginity whilst totally drunk to some hooker - how romantic!

[MarkyMayhem]

SWIM is pretty sure he lost his whilest on drugs..
SWIM was a teenage runaway... Before he left his hometown for good ole' NYC, he crashed here and there - he delayed his departure until he was fairly certian the bus/train/airport etc were no longer being watched for him.
Anyway, one night SWIM ended up crashing with this woman his older buddy had met online [circa 1998 or 1999 I think] who went to college locally and had a private dorm. Earlier that evening, SWIM had taken 5 or 6 hits of LSD and consumed somewhere around 650 - 700 mgs of DXM.
So ~ 10pm or so, SWIM ends up getting picked up from the diner by his friend and said woman and taken to the dorms. Her and SWIM went in, he went home... SWIM and woman went upstairs, she made SWIM a little nest on the floor and they 'went to sleep' anyway, she did for a while. SWIM was wide eyed and tripping and ended up putting the screen saver on her PC and watching that for a while. She woke up at some point, or never went to sleep, SWIM was unsure of the timeframe then and tells me he is VERY unsure now. The lights go on, SWIM asks to go out to smoke. They go outside, SWIM smokes. The come back in. She gets out a bag of lemon drops and they both eat one. SWIM gets ready to lay down on the floor and she says "Oh it's to hard down there, you'll never get to sleep, come share the bed with me, it's ok" So SWIM gets in to bed. the lights go out. Some short time later, SWIM gets the ole' hand on the package move and amazingly [ahhh youth] gets a raging hard-on despite the LSD and DXM... She opens a drawer and pulls a rubber out of a box [a big one] and tries to put it on SWIM. [*WARNING* Bad Judgement Ahead!!!] It broke going on. She gets another. Now SWIM isn't excessivly HUGE or anything.. And he doesn't remember the brand. And the woman was obviously well experienced at putting those things on cocks, with the half-empty big box and all.. Anyway, the second one somehow, for some reason is about to pinch SWIM's penis off it's so tight, constricting once it gets about 1/4 of the way on. SWIM was like "Owww! No way" and rips it off.. SWIM says something like "sorry, somethings wrong with your rubbers, maybe we should just go to sleep?" She turns off the lights, saying "It's OK" and....Stupid fucked-up SWIM has unprotected sex with his buddy's new internet girlfriend...
For a few minutes anyway.... SWIM didn't cum, and eventually lost his erection and had to stop. Thank GOD, as he would probablly have failed to at least pull out, gotten the woman pregnant and then who KNOWS where he would be today...

[j00sh]

Lost mine while very, very drunk. I don't recommend it unless you really just have so much anxiety that you need the alcohol to lower inhibition. If possible, go for straight sober. When I finally had sex without any alcohol in the mix, it was so much more satisfying.

Mixing drugs & sex can be cool, experimenting is fun if you're comfortable with the right person. But for your first time, why not just experience it straight up. Most substances affect you in weird ways anyways, like you might not get it up, or you might not finish. Use protection, get it in, come fast like you're supposed to. No embarrassment the first time and it's so fun

[ro3bot]

swim didnt read the whole thread yet but looks forward to doing so later when he has the time, swims 2c: swim lost his virginity drunk, high on reefer, and with about 2mg of kpins in his tiny 16yo body hahaha, needless to say swim gave it to that girl good for about 20 minutes and then couldnt get his dick up anymore and passed out. apparently swim didnt scare the girl off either cuz theyve been dating for 17 months since then! and with a greatly improved sex life!

last night though swim had sex for the first time on like 50 mg of oc (being the second time swims done oc he was fucked) in addition to that swim was on about 40mg of adderall, a line of molly, and maddddddddd reefer chronic. swim and that same girl were at it from 3am to 7:30am nonstop and honestly swim thinks hes too young to be having sex this good

swim would also like to add the experience of a good friend of his: when swims friend was 13 (about 25 years ago) his parents were going through lots of nasty fights and a divorce and whatnot so to escape his depression and his parents he would go to the playground down the street and dig up the bottle of jack daniels he had buried there, get drunk in this little tunnel playstructure thing and pass out. Well one night swims friend was in the process of doing what hed been doing every other night for a while when he was approached by two 16 year old girls who told him he looked cold and that they wanted to warm him up.

usually whiskey warms swim right up but apparently no warm compares to the warm of a couple of 16 year old pussys haha

[sandoz1943]

SWIM wishes she had been high when she lost it. It couldn't have made it any worse thats for sure.

[DynoMiTe]

My Buddha statue lost his on weed and somas. He thinks weed isn't bad if you do it all the time, but certainly not any other drugs.