Experiences - When SWIY & partner aren't on the same page

[frenchywife]

SWIM was wondering when SWIY is indulging with their partner and there is a disagreement on when to call it quits, how is the situation handled? Is there an agreement made beforehand?

SWIM & partner have experienced this many times and it's usually not pleasant - any SWIY who can relate or share experiences?

[DryIce]

In SWIMs opinion, the disagreeing partner can leave. Unless SWIY means that they bought the snow together so they must share it equally.

[SexyConfidence]

Originally Posted by frenchywife

SWIM was wondering when SWIY is indulging with their partner and there is a disagreement on when to call it quits, how is the situation handled? Is there an agreement made beforehand?

Agree the rules BEFORE SWIM starts

SWIM & partner have experienced this many times and it's usually not pleasant - any SWIY who can relate or share experiences?

Swim has identified a regular pattern, it'll be a hard pattern to change the longer it continues. This is exactly how the 'habit' takes control.

SWIM could fight hard and tough psychologically, to Master the 'game'.

<Smile!>

Take care,

G.

[yourimaginaryfriend]

when swim used with past girlfriends, swim always paid for the coke so it was rarely an issue. she would usually want to snort and have sex until its all gone. and swim did too. if she did want to stop, swim would let her sleep and swim would go snort in the other room.

[j0hnd03]

Swim finds that if you only have a specific amount available everybody usually just does it until its gone. SWIY could agree on an amount that would be fitting for all parties, not to much, not to little, JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT. Assuming that it would not be to easy for the person wanting to continue to obtain more when the cravings start.

hope this helps

[frenchywife]

Originally Posted by j0hnd03

Swim finds that if you only have a specific amount available everybody usually just does it until its gone. SWIY could agree on an amount that would be fitting for all parties, not to much, not to little, JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT. Assuming that it would not be to easy for the person wanting to continue to obtain more when the cravings start.

hope this helps

It does, thanx SWIJ! SWIM was just curious to see if other SWIY disagreed with their partners as to when to pack it in b/c sometimes it's easier said than done - especially the parties are having different experiences.

[j0hnd03]

Originally Posted by frenchywife

It does, thanx SWIJ! SWIM was just curious to see if other SWIY disagreed with their partners as to when to pack it in b/c sometimes it's easier said than done - especially the parties are having different experiences.

Yea, it happens SWIM has had it happen with spouses, friends and even siblings. It can be frustrating but SWIM finds it's Best to discuss it before hand and agree on a certain amount, but like SWIM said it can be easier said than done. If SWIM may ask, is the issue SWIY usually stopping while some is left or wanting to get more when the initial amount is gone?

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Thanks for the insight!

[frenchywife]

[quote=j0hnd03;422925]Yea, it happens SWIM has had it happen with spouses, friends and even siblings. It can be frustrating but SWIM finds it's Best to discuss it before hand and agree on a certain amount, but like SWIM said it can be easier said than done. If SWIM may ask, is the issue SWIY usually stopping while some is left or wanting to get more when the initial amount is gone?

The issue is usually stopping while some is left - rarely is it an issue of getting more when the initial amount is gone b/c that usually occurs at an ungodly hour, aka mission impossible.

[MrG]

The one that is usually first to raise the white flag should be in charge of hiding the extra before the party begins so that both parties agree to stop when the allocated amount has been done.

No matter how stroppy the other one might get "awwwwwwww go on, just little bit more"!