Sexual Performance After MDMA

[SuperRy]

So here's a story. My pet Weasel went to Warped Tour and decided to roll, like he does once every year. This year the Weasel had sex for the first time and it was amazing. In two straight hours he came twice. He had heard rumors not to ejaculate because it can cause permanent problems. It seemed to cause the opposite effect of the rumor. He has developed premature ejaculation. Since then he has had sex with his girlfriend three or four times, and it always results in the Weasel ejaculating within the first five minutes. Is it possible to develop permanent premature ejaculation from this?

[backtothefuture]

It's not MDMA. Your just going through the same thing a lot of guys have been through when first having sex. Including me.

I hope she's not giving you a hard time; work with it. It's all about controlling yourself. It's not permanent, it's more of a psychological thing. Like a bad habit bro. I know this isn't a sex forum, so I'll just keep it short.

You can feel it when your gonna cum. The absolute SECOND you think your heading towards ejaculation, slow the FUCK down.

Practice makes perfect

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Good honest advice, nice to see.

[backtothefuture]

Oh yeah, and just to let you know, I went from:

Worst Time:
37 Seconds, no lie, very disappointed gf

to....

PRESENT DAY:
As long as I want to. Seriosuly, I am so amazed at myself

Don't worry man, as long as your willing to try you'll make it.

[SuperRy]

That makes me feel a hell of a lot better . I just think it's strange that a Weasel went from going 20 or 30 minutes sober, to seconds overnight. It even feels different, like he can't control it lol. Your comment also reminded me to ask a sex forum. I just think this forum can tell me if its the MDMA or not. I've done some research and the only thing that came up was erectional problems. And nah, she's not giving me a hard time. Shes just worried about my Weasel.

[MrG]

Firstly, stop listening to rumours. This isn't the 70's - educate yourself through the proper online resources not third hand rubbish.

Premature ejaculation is nearly *always* about simply being so turned on that the guy can't help himself.

Knock one off in the bathroom just before having sex.

And whatever you do, don't let it become a really big issue. Sex is meant to be fun not some sort of competitive sport. Shit, at that age if I came to soon we simply went at it again afterwards!

[justme102571]

In my opinion, I think it's a combination of a few things. One of them being - you're now associating your sexual sober experience to your rolling-sexual experience... this is causing an overload of kinetic energy, which is potentiating your ejaculation problem.

For example, SWIM had such a good time in the past while rolling and listening to a particular techno CD that if he listens to that CD again... no matter what mood he's in... those sounds bring back memories, those memories get the neruons firing, and SWIM gets in a damn good mood. SWIM swears there are moments when he can gets a distinct 'near-roll' sensation for minutes on end... by just closing his eyes, remembering certain things, and listening to a particular CD. Well, you had such an profound experience with your sex + X evening, now your brain is just taking you back and making the connections.

SWIM would suggest ONE of the following A) Viagra, B) more and more sex, C) more 'sex + X'.

Either of the aforementioned 3 is not a bad option. =)

[BackToBasics]

Isn't Viagra just for erectile dysfunction, not premature ejaculation?

If swiy panics about said problem, it will only make things worse. As backtothefuture said, it's a psychological thing, and should sort itself out in time.

[justme102571]

Yes, that's what Viagra is for... HOWEVER... it will make your girlfriend happy because if you do prematurely ejaculate, you just towel it off and keep going. Eventually, you'll stop ejaculating prematurely because you'll probably just stop ejaculating period.

[Nature Boy]

Unusual problem. Permature ejaculation would usually be the least of one's worries when using MDMA because getting it up in the first place can be difficult. I guess SWIY could try using thick condoms, the one's often labelled "extra safe" or "double protection" or whatever. Those things are so damn secure you won't feel a thing through them. Makes for a fairly lousy ride however IMO.

[SuperRy]

I'm just happy to hear it's not permanent. As stupid as that sounds to think that, it's scary to think my Weasel could have permanently fucked himself over...no pun intended. Thanks a lot .

[kakakaka]

One day you will relise that sex is just another race. At the end of the day the end result is always gonna be the same so why not get it over and done with as quick as you can

[MrG]

Originally Posted by kakakaka

One day you will relise that sex is just another race. At the end of the day the end result is always gonna be the same so why not get it over and done with as quick as you can

If you believe that then you are doing it wrong.