SWIM's sex problems

[mindmaster]

Hi swim have some sexual problems one of them he think is from a ex girlfriend who almost raped him and now is swim begin to take risperdal and the sexual feeling is totally disaperread now have swim a new girlfriend but i can't get it up so swim would hear if there where stuff there would do him horny so he can get it up. And swim would also like to hear swiy expericenses

[Sky Walker]

Ask swims girlfriend to insert a well lubed finger into his anus and apply gentle pressure to the prostate, while massaging swims testicles.

[MrG]

Nice suggestions but, by the sound of it, I don't think he's quite "at that place" yet!

Tadalafil - generic Cialis will do the trick for SWIY mindmaster. Pop one of those babies on a Friday and your still *boinggggggg* good to go come Monday. I shit you not.

[Trebor]

Originally Posted by Sky Walker

Ask swims girlfriend to insert a well lubed finger into his anus and apply gentle pressure to the prostate, while massaging swims testicles.

That is a really good way to be pleasured... so I hear...

[Nature Boy]

Originally Posted by mindmaster

Hi swim have some sexual problems one of them he think is from a ex girlfriend who almost raped him and now is swim begin to take risperdal and the sexual feeling is totally disaperread now have swim a new girlfriend but i can't get it up so swim would hear if there where stuff there would do him horny so he can get it up. And swim would also like to hear swiy expericenses

Perhaps SWIY should explain this to his doctor and ask for different medication to deal with whatever anxiety he is dealing with whilst not compromising the health of his libido.

[assionyx]

i'd say talk to your doctor.
SWIM is in a similar situation, and finds that her medications' side effects are only part of the problem... have you considered what role your mind might be playing in this? (going over the trauma, maybe you're subconsciously having trouble with sex because of what happened before?)

[Swimster]

Originally Posted by MrG

Tadalafil - generic Cialis will do the trick for SWIY mindmaster. Pop one of those babies on a Friday and your still *boinggggggg* good to go come Monday. I shit you not.

Nice suggestion swim agree's.

As far as the experiences go's for swim, "minmaster", the only time he couldn't get it to go was after long use of being a speed freak(heavy ice user), may not be something in common to your issue, but it's the closest swim has.

[INodHardOhYeah]

See a therapist about the issues SWIY is having, the answer is not always drugs and SWIY shouldn't have to rely on them for a healthy sexual life. Cialis/Viagra etc. should be used when a physical problem is preventing SWIY from performing.

[Swimster]

Originally Posted by INodHardOhYeah

See a therapist about the issues SWIY is having, the answer is not always drugs and SWIY shouldn't have to rely on them for a healthy sexual life. Cialis/Viagra etc. should be used when a physical problem is preventing SWIY from performing.

Makes sense. Swiy's problem may persist mentally(perhaps,trama of some sort). Also, taking drugs to help will cost a little for something which is supposed to be natural. Getting mental issue fixed avoids this.