Help Needed to Forget

[flipthecandy]

Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

Also, seriously, give hypnosis a try. You'll be surprised!

[manda]

I also wanted to add one thing- some memories we are just stuck with. Some memories don't always fade.

Now that you have met a nice girl (I'm sorry I missed that before) I think you should let her know what happened if you haven't already.
It will build closeness and help you to talk about it.

[Sandozboy]

With a major traumatic experience in the past it is best to aim for forgiveness (either of yourself or the other ones culpable), as forgetting is downright impossible.