Social - The hiding cocaine use from someone threads

[risexagainst]

swim wants to do coke sometimes when she goes out with her boyfriend, or even when they just stay in...hes never done it, but hes seen a lot of ppl on it. Do you think swim can hide the fact that she's on it when she see him?

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[Saybin]

if hes seen a lot of people on it then swim's not sure If one can hide it. Maybe just stretch out a few lines over the night to keep the mood. SWIM is a pretty experienced coke user and still has a hard time hiding that. Although, SWIM was able to rack out 2 g's in under an hour and still keep straight around his parents :P.

[Alfa]

Unless he's very stupid, he will see it. Please read the rules on self incrimination.

[Jessica_Raven]

lucky SWIM doesn't have to hide her coke use from her bf, he's fully aware of it, he doesn't do it himself, but lets SWIM do it whenever she wants

he actually says SWIM is pretty sexy coked up

[meetmeinthebathroom]

SWIM used to hide it from her boyfriend. She would avoid his calls when sitting in her room on it at nite, and she would only party in a social situation where she knew we'd all be getting pretty drunk. Although SWIM's boyfriend is pretty inexperienced with the looks/actions of people fucked up, she tried to keep those two lives seperate.

One afternoon SWIM was snorting lines with her friend, and he called and needed a favor-- he needed SWIM to go to his house and keep his friends from out of town company. SWIM was so miserable and jittery-- all she wanted to do was party, and instead she had to sit in a movie theater with two guys and watch Troy. Ugh!!

[KomodoMK]

have to ask what kind of relationship you expect to have if you need to hide it from him? Relationships never work without honesty. Hiding the fact you have taken it shouldn't be that hard at all in comparison to other drugs. The give away usually is things like people who sniff every 30 seconds and dissapear every half hour, maybe coming back with slightly flushed complexion. If you know someone really well you maybe able to tell from their attitude or appearance. Guess it all really depends, everyone is different.

[Saybin]

haha thank you komodo. i should have mentioned that you should talk to swiyour boyfriend about the situation rather than hiding it. guess my mind was blocked by the thought of llello. havnt touched it in a while .

[Dbot]

SWIY should be honest with the BF. If SWIY's boyfriend has seen people on it--it will be fairly easy to tell. SWIY never knows--the bf could end wanting to try it with someone he trusts (his girlfriend; but that will never happen if communication isn't there).

[peterarlei]

Swim say's continue to hide it for as long as possible as it adds to the excitement, what i mean is its more than just the high from c its the whole thing of sneakin off cuttin that line and snortin whilst the flushing of the toilet disguises the sound. ie the taboo enhances the experience.

[KomodoMK]

Originally Posted by peterarlei

Swim say's continue to hide it for as long as possible as it adds to the excitement, what i mean is its more than just the high from c its the whole thing of sneakin off cuttin that line and snortin whilst the flushing of the toilet disguises the sound. ie the taboo enhances the experience.

I don't disagree, anticipation and excitement is all part of the fun. But is it worth the risk of losing someone you love? If drugs mean more to you than your partner then something is seriously wrong...

[merseyloyalist]

Originally Posted by KomodoMK

I don't disagree, anticipation and excitement is all part of the fun. But is it worth the risk of losing someone you love? If drugs mean more to you than your partner then something is seriously wrong...

Girls seem to be worse with their cocaine/crack addictions than any lads I ever knew,have seen some good looking girls end up messes on rock and/or on the game.

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[peterarlei]

Swim likes to do a line of coke when out or at home with boyfriend, no reference to crack is made and a whole differant ball park, think boyfriend would definatly notice if swim had just been upstairs and sneaked a pipe.
Why not then ask boyfriend some hyperthetical questions using the third person, to see where boyfriends lies on such a matter ya never know he too could have a secret of his own .

Originally Posted by KomodoMK

I don't disagree, anticipation and excitement is all part of the fun. But is it worth the risk of losing someone you love? If drugs mean more to you than your partner then something is seriously wrong...

Does swim mention love for boyfriend? and some people do risk losing the one they love for drugs, sad but true, it happens.

[Divalici0us]

SWIM also usses sneaky drugs, because he is against it. So mostly she just don't usses them. But sometimes after work, she just needs a pipe or line. She then quickly sneaks into a restroom and takes an line. Je doesnt she that. But the pipe is different. SWIM never smokes day time (anymore) only at night and only if she has nothing to do the next day or if she can smoke more. But sometimes the BF stays by surprise and walks in the room (thank god he first calls me if im home) than it is hard for SWIM to hide the crack and pipe back in SWIMs purse. and feeling that horrible crash. She then goes thruogh a hell the first 20 minutes and then calms down or has found a way to take a sneak fix in the bedroom. Before the sex she usely takes a quick fix in the bathroom. But then again this only happend 3 or 4 times.

SWIN's girlfriend sometimes say's SWIN sounds different when he does a line. For this reason SWIN has a hard time hiding it.SWIM wonders if anyone else has this problem?

[tk421]

Originally Posted by Dbot

SWIY should be honest with the BF. If SWIY's boyfriend has seen people on it--it will be fairly easy to tell. SWIY never knows--the bf could end wanting to try it with someone he trusts (his girlfriend; but that will never happen if communication isn't there).

LOL.
I was wondering if that's what she's worried about!

SWIM used to tell an ex-girlfriend how cannabis was a bad drug for someone with her personality simply because he didn't want to share his stash.

[fromthestars]

Seems like that would be a little crappy to have to associate using blow with the guild of lying to your gf/bf. Swims gf can tell when hes used any cocaine at all, and somehow she can generally tell how much and how long ago, shes really good like that. Also ive noticed that even tho it seems its mostly guys doing coke, the girls that do do it dive right in with no looking back...oh and always just use guys for there blow. Btw, to the poster who said they secretly smoke crack and hide it from there bf, what a dissapointment for him!

[Frivolous248]

Swim doesn't have much experience with coke, but he can seem to be able to tell when people are on it and can't imagine swiy being able to hide it very easily, especially not for awhile. Maybe a few times...

Also on MTVs "True Life: I'm a drug addict" then this girl tried hiding using coke from her boyfriend and he knew instantly when she was on it, even though they were originally tweakers. That ended up ending their relationship too, as they were both trying to get clean for one another.

SWIM wouldn't suggest trying this unless you want to endanger your relationship.

[dbjay417]

SWIM could never have a significant other that doesn't party at least a lil bit. SWIM doesn't even like going to clubs, bars or parties where SWIM has to hide his use. SWIM could never be truely comfortable with some one if SWIM had to constantly hide SWIMs fondness of yayo.

[radiometer]

I can't wrap my head around the concept. The most basic premise of a relationship is trust. Hiding drug use from a partner is a violation of their trust. If they find out, SWIY will have lost that trust. If they don't find out, and if SWIY has any ethics, SWIY will experience a certain amount of guilt from breaking that trust. None of this is any good for a relationship. If SWIY doesn't care about any of this, then SWIY should not be in a serious relationship in the first place and should quit wasting their partner's time and energy. If, on the other hand, the relationship is casual, then SWIY should be open about what they are doing and let their partner react however they like.

[KomodoMK]

Couldn't put it any better than radiometer just has. Hit the nail right on the head there.