Drugs for female sensitivity and orgasm?

[bewilderment]

Okay, I feel a bit overexposed with asking this, but I'll get over it.

So, I have been sexually active for a year with a partner who I love very much and who tries her best (yes, her) to please me in every way including physically (and she does). But, I've never experienced an orgasm in my life whether through masturbation or anything else. I don't even think that I've come close. However, I do have a very healthy libido and have sex and enjoy it on a regular basis...I used to be on an SSRI and thought that had something to do with it, but I haven't been on an antidepressant for many months now. I've read up on the subject of female orgasm and feel I know enough about the female anatomy and so forth so this isn't something concerning a lack of education on the subject.

Anyway, I'm wondering what drugs help in both sensitivity as well as the ability to orgasm for females. I'm not necessarily asking about illegal drugs as legal drugs (or topical creams, etc.)would be welcome as well.

Also, it would absolutely great if anyone knows someone who has had a similar problem and has found a way to overcome it.

I've read similar threads, but I don't think this specific topic fits into them and if so then I apologize.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions.

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old thread but thanks for sharing this and opening this interesting discussion which followed