Best drug to socialise w/ long lost friends?

[StigmataLectron]

Here's some background info: I've got this friend, I think his name is Curtis. He's got this friend, who's name may or may not be Leah. Curtis and Leah live 20-30 minutes away from eachother, and used to talk online a lot. A couple months back, in March or April 2005, Curtis had a crush on Leah but it never worked out, because Curtis is a pretentous asshole who can't accept the fact that Leah likes The Used and My Chemical Romance (Curtis bitched at her to listen to Husker Du or Mission of Burma because he believed they made Leah's music obsolete). Eventually they parted and went their seperate ways.

Sorry if none of that was relevant.

Curtis and Leah just recently started talking to eachother again. Curtis discovered pot and DXM since they last talked and has been wanting to do LSD, so he doesn't give a crap if Leah likes crappy music (hell, Curtis kinda has a thing for Sum 41 when he's baked enough). Leah has also gotten into drugs since they were friends, but different ones - LSD, Mushrooms, weed, and trying to stop using Heroin and Coke. I'd assume that the personalities of these two friends could be guessed at by the drugs they use most often. Curtis just found that he has $60, and wants to see Leah for the first time in a while, but he really wants to break the ice by buying drugs for both of them.

My question is, what kind of drug should Curtis and Leah use to break the ice? I thought of telling him that he should get some LSD and good ol' fashioned Mary Jane, but he's worried that Leah might be a little "Edgy" than last time they talked, and this could induce a bad trip. He's also considering getting some MDMA, but he's afraid of all the bad stuff people say about it - getting really depressed the next day, neurotoxicity, and purity. Curtis swears never to touch Heroin or Coke, and considers mushrooms too expensive. Thanks for any advice people could give me, Curtis will really appreciate it.

[oldman]

dude, if you can get it, there would be no substitute for good mdma. if you're not a regular (heavy) user, don't worry about the depression. never really any worse than lsd anyway. if it is both your first times it will be great. like having a mild lsd experience without the possibility of a bad trip. nothing touches it. if you don't get close again with a couple rolls, you're never gonna get close so give up. good luck

[hazeinmybong2]

I would tell the guy suplication is not the key. If he buys the chick drugs he is saying, hey I bought you these drugs you better have sex with me. Tell him to take her to a movie if he wants to spend money on her. It just doesn't seem like a healthy thing to do in a not-healthy relationship(different from unhealthy). I would also tell him not to mention DXM to girls haha. If he feels he must buy, get some green or better yet vodka, chicks love vodka.

[oldman]

yeah but everyone tries to get chicks to drink vodka. drawback is that they can get real stupid easy. next thing you know she's getting cocky and mean, telling you what she really thinks, and no the good stuff. not saying you should look at it like hey I got this stuff, lets have sex. But some rolls could really facilitate some deep discussion about what might be the barrier in establishing a relationship again. just having them for the "just in case" is way better than not. the green definitely goes without saying though. Vodka can turn on you sometimes. it can get sloppy, mean, and sometimes sick (vomit). beleive me I love the vodka too. just have found a drunk chick to be realy useless. if you'er intentions are less than honerable, go with the booze. if you're looking to break down some barriers, go for the rolls. don't concentrate on sex off the bat either. just have fun. listen to some good chilled out music you both can like. something spacey and smooth. if it's going to happen it'll happen. GHB might not be a bad route either. swims not experienced so much with that though. would go for mdma first. get some more $ too. a night worth remembering should be worth more than $60.

[hazeinmybong2]

This kid has never rolled. You think it is a good idea for him to roll with a girl he is/was obsessed with? Its just not right. Not for a first time. Not for this instance. Too many variables.

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Good points to bring up.

[Micklemouse]

O.k., this is the first time these two have met since the blow-out right? And there's no element of C wanting to bed L anymore? They just want to ease things over and see where they are meeting face to face after a time apart and a bit of communication recently? Right? So from this my recommendation for a drug/combo to get things going would be a cup of tea and maybe a spliff, seeing as that is their common d.o.c. from what you've told us. Anything much stronger or random at this point would be asking for a potentially very awkward evening. Remember that there's going to be a bit of tension here, so avoid the potential for intense paranoia inducing experiences. Maybe have some mdma and/or booze in reserve if things are going well, but go easy on it if it does come out.

Given that L is having problems with heroin and coke, she may well take the gift of drugs the wrong way. If she's aware enough to have sussed that she could have a problem, she may well have an over-awareness of other's perceptions of her - "Oh great! I haven't seen you in months, and here you are bringing me drugs when I'm trying to sort my head out and I'm freaked about seeing you anyway!", "What sort of girl do you think I am?". Buy her some flowers instead!

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Wow, insightful advice, very good indeed.

[hazeinmybong2]

Well put Mickle, those were some of my thoughts. I just have trouble putting them as elequantly as you after a sleepless night. I'm glad someone else sees the trouble in strong halucinagens in this situation. Once you take that roll there is no way to stop it. Plus the guy doesn't even like the idea of rolls. That's how I was. Then as soon as I took them I broke down all reserves on any other drugs.

[raven3davis]

MDMA would be SWIMs top selection. Good pills will make them connect with each other and communication will be excellent. But maybe he shouldnt be concentrating on getting them both fucked up on drugs. Why not go to a movie or something? Why not do both? Meeting up with her for the first time in months with the sole intention of getting high might not be the best idea. He should show her that she does not need drugs to have a good time. Obviously she has a drug problem if she is addicted to coke and heroin. Think about helping her maybe. She would appreciate that much more than buying her ecstasy. I would say show her a good time without the use of drugs.

Take her out to dinner or to a movie or something. Do some typical date kinda bullshit. Once you are comftorable with her and try to help he a bit then maybe you too can drop X together. Your main priority should be getting her off of drugs and showing her that she doesnt need drugs to feel good. You (or curtis) can make her feel just as good. Your friend could take her to dinner and a movie with that kind of money, and then have some extra cash for icecream! hehe. Its curtis' decision but IMO the best idea would not be to bu her drugs.

However, if you are dead set on getting one then SWIM would recommend MDMA or just marijuana. Marijuana would be a good choice because you two could get high and just chill and talk, maybe even go see a movie. You could do the same with MDMA but it is more of a "drug" than marijuana but whatever You should definitely be thinking about the future of your relationship though and the future of your girl. You dont want her being addicted to c and H.

[oldman]

mickel and raven have the right idea. I'm not to big to admit defeat. The movie and whatever sound like the best bet. People who have problems with c &h typically don't feel better drinking. usually makes them want to go score. buds seem best.

although as mickel mentioned, if possible having some rolls on reserve just in case may not be a bad idea. just don't push the issue to much. if it's meant to happen it will present itself. otherwise if you're strapped for cash go on a normal date. be a gentleman. might be what she's really looking for anyway. if not it's always easy to go the other direction.

[StigmataLectron]

You guy's are probably right, and I think I'm going to take your word for it. Ecstacy and LSD are unfamiliar territorry to Curtis, and he gets pretty horny/uncontrollable/bullimic-sort-of-nausea on Alcohol and wouldn't want anything bad to happen. Curtis has some self control when it comes to sex, he doesn't really expect it, but he also doesn't know how he would act differently under any of these drugs.

Thanks for the input guys, I think Curtis and Leah are going to spend the day together stoned and chilling out.

[stuckmojo]

justin says ok.