Getting RESULTS in life without trying

[Worlock]

How to get results in life without trying.


Life and the universe in general have a current , like a river. This current is going to carry us along, it is very strong. You can swim around in it and move to different spots, but in the end, we all travel downstream. Some of us swim against the current, fighting the natural flow of things, a futile approach to life. Others take a few strokes , and move to see interesting point along the way.


To remove this from the metaphorical into a setting you can use in your life. Lets say you are having an argument with someone and you are determined that you are correct, the argument heats up , everything becomes stressful. So it is that you are attempting to change this persons mind about some aspect of the way the world works in your opinion. This person is your employer and he wants you to attend a seminar on attracting new customers. You agree, although it is in the evening after work. Then you find out it is on a Monday and you are going to miss football.


Monday rolls around , and you are pissed, it is raining, on the way to the seminar, you get a flat tire, . Grumbling you get out in the rain, jack up the car , the jack slips, almost killing you, eventually the tire gets fixed and you head to the seminar, wet, dirty, angry as hell.


That is what I call swimming against the current.


Because his co worker, was not arguing with anybody, looked forward to the seminar. He also had a flat tire, and saw that if he drove his car another 50 feet he would be under a bridge. Getting out nice and dry, whistling a tune he changes his tire, and makes it to the seminar. . Back home it turns out the football game was delayed due to rain, and he missed only about 5 minuted of the game.


Both men had the same problems to deal with, the first man created a night mere out of it, the second man cruised through with out a problem.


In fact 90% of the 1st man's troubles were his own creation, the only thing he had to actually deal with was driving and fixing a flat tire, the rest of the BS was an illusion..


First off his argument was insane, why try to convince someone else that your views are right and they are wrong. He has no incredible insight on the Grand Plan, It would have been much easier to change AIs attitude and respect that others see things differently because of their own life path. It is much easier to change your way of thinking that trying to change the worlds way of thinking.


Had he been able to swim with the current instead of against it , his life would be much happier.


Maybe you think that it is important to stand up for what you think, and I agree with you there, however if you are not satisfied with the results that that chinking is bringing into your life then maybe you should change your thinking..


The motivation for change is Results and if you are not getting the results you want, in your life it is easier to change your thinking than to try and change the world.


Yes but, what about my beliefs about right and wrong. Having a conscience it would be wrong for me to modify my beliefs.


And that is exactly the point of this topic. You can have whatever results YOU want in YOUR life without trying. I imagine this still seems absurd to you, but it is a very simple thing to do.


I have a method that is bey easy in which you can begin getting the RESULTS YOU want in YOUR LIFE. Imagine that getting whatever you want without trying.


Well by now you are certain I have smoked too much of something. Perhaps you are right, Why not follow me through another story, as I begin to bring this puzzle into focus .





Two little 9 year old girls, decide they want to be dancers. The 1st girl, takes off dancing across the living room , spinning , jumping , dancing, she is not very good, but to her it does not matter, she is a dancer.


The Second girl being more "realistic" wants to be a dancer, and knows it takes practice and dedication, she needs shoes, lessons , an audience, and some day she will be a dancer.


Both girls Pursue the career, the 1st girl stating out "BEING" a dancer, and DOES the things dancers DO, and ends up HAVING the things dancers HAVE .


The 2nd girl must HAVE the dancer things, then DO the dancer things, and eventually she will BE a dancer.


Both girls arrive at the same goals , it is only their thinking that is different,. Have we learned that in order to be some thing we must follow the progression of having , then doing, then Being. In school and work and life. But that is swimming against the current.



Now we are almost ready to learn how you CAN GET THE RESULTS you WANT IN your LIFE.





One very short story first


Two bowlers both of equal skill and both very good bowlers, step up to the line . the first Bowler tosses a gutter ball, the crowd is shocked, but he is undaunted, , lines up and tosses a strike to give him a spare.


The 2nd bowler also throws it down the gutter, the crowd is shocked. He says to himself "Shit , my game is off, , this sucks , I am going to have a rotten game, he gets up to the line and tosses another gutter ball, convinced he tells himself he is in trouble.


Now the 1st gutter ball was just that a gutter ball, it had no effect on the next toss, , the difference between the two bowlers was the self talk they had with themselves.


WE all carry on a conversation with ourselves during the day,. It is measurable in slight movements of the voice box and muscles of speaking. If you take someone into your confidence, you confide in them, IOU tell them things, and expect some type of reaction. WE are taking ourselves into our confidence all the time . I call it Self Confidence, it is the intimate conversations you have with yourself. The men going to the seminar used it, the dancers used it the bowlers used it, YOU it. IT is very powerful, and a tool that you must watch and be aware of if you want RESULTS, because that conversation is vital to your belief system and your subconscious mind. the things you tell yourself are based upon what you believe . Or the things you believe are what you are saying to yourself.


The other point about the bowlers is that the first gutter ball had nothing to do with the second roll of the ball unless they allowed it to affect their performance. The 1st toss was just that 1 toss the 2nd toss was a whole new toss. Don't allow you prior history to affect your future ,





OK lets begin with a simple RESULT Get a few blank sheets of paper and a pen


At the top put


Name_________________Date__________________


Result____________________


would have Not have would do not do would be not be-------


-----------X-----------x---------x-------x---------x-------- x


-----------X-----------x---------x-------x---------x-------- x


-----------X-----------x---------x-------x---------x-------- x


-----------X-----------x---------x-------x---------x-------- x


divide it into appropriate columns with a line


Fill in your name and the date is important


Put in the result you want


Lets use happiness or Happy ,


Under would have enter the things that you would have if you were happy, some possible things might be money, a job, a family, a bag of weed, a new car , whatever it is you would have, this is very personal so put in what you would have.


The next column put what you would not have, debts, nagging wife, messy bedroom , roommate, whatever


then would do , take a vacation , quit work, buy new car, sell house, finally put down what you would be Kind, friendly, industrious, clever, rich, sexy and what you would not be weird mean, sickly, poor, a carpenter, a doctor, a jerk married ,single etc


Take the time to fill out as many of these as you want results Maybe you want to be Wealthy


maybe your result you want is to be successful


or sell 20 bags of pot or have a allot of friends, or live some where else, it is all up top you,


What you will see are conflicts here and there in your list , for example maybe your will be happy if you are rich, but you think rich people are stingy and you would be generous.


The truth is you can be rich and selfish and happy


you can be rich and generous and happy


you can be poor and selfish and happy


you can poor and generous and unhappy


the result of being happy has nothing to do with the result of being rich just like the 1st gutter ball had no effect on the second ball.


But if being happy means a new car and at the same time quitting your job well then you may have a conflict


If you want to be Rich and happy but believe that rich people are selfish and unhappy then you need to change your thinking Many rich people are very happy many poor people are very happy.


Resolve these conflicts, use your Self confidence to convince yourself.


Say you wish to be rich and you don't have a dime, but if you start off BEING rich , It is easier to attract riches. Sure it is a lie, and maybe you are not rich, but your mind responds to what you tell it, if you tell yourself your are rich or you are happy , you have a good chance of being rich or happy, You can trick your mind into believing whatever you wish and maybe it is not true right now , but it soon will be.


It works, the more you believe and use the act of Being the easier it is to do and have the things .


Why do I say without trying?


Well if you try to do something you imply you may not do it


So quit trying , Just BE, DO and HAVE, Don't try anymore remove the word from your self confidence and all your conversations, give up trying.


Make up the RESULT charts it is as easy as that that is the 10% of work you must do the other 90% is between your ears,


All that is needed is to put down on paper with your name and date the result you want and the BE, DO and HAVE that goes with those results, It is that simple, you might look at them once in a while or update them , but doing it confirms your desire and the what is going to happen

[Creeping Death]

You dont really have that choice. You still have to go to that damned work seminar, or you lose your job. Even if that is against your "current", you gotta do it. Blame society.

[Worlock]

Originally Posted by Creeping Death

You dont really have that choice. You still have to go to that damned work seminar, or you lose your job. Even if that is against your "current", you gotta do it. Blame society.

Are you a Gambling man


I have not worked in years, get up when I feel like it


Own a very nice house, boat, car, truck. All paid for , Have everything I want, , I think I'll get another Guitar , already havre six, but I have been checking out this Gibson.I


used to work 7 days a week 10 to 14 hours a day, it was killing me, all the stress, walked out and locked the doors, one day, never returnrd to work, except to haull all mt shit out of the office space I rented.

[icecrew]

Worlock I enjoyed reading what you said and say in all your opinions,
sound like a smart man...I will def try doing what you explained in
your topic, since im still 19 years old I want to follow good advice
and I think you give good advice = ] thanks man

[The_Great_Sage]

dude worlock, from alot of drug use i have thought many and many of
times i found the seceret to life and alot of the time my theorys
worked. they made sense and could be applied to every single persons
life. now i didnt read all of your post, but what i did read sounded
alot like so many other theorys and practices. no idea should ever be
credited to one person because there is probably a million other people
with the same thought just unexpressed. so when i see someone giving
their account of the easy way to live or the way to win the game of
life, i push it off and ignore it hoping that if i do it will stfu.
life is meant to be lived how the individual wants it. live your own
life do waht you love and follow your own dreams do anything you want,
BUT find how to do it on your own,even if the way you do it is the same
as what someone else said, then find out that it works on your own dont
just live other peoples good ideas. i think i agree with you on alot of
things worlock but having such a strict theory and set of thigns to do
just to experiance it idk jst kinda a buzz kill for me.



and dude i realized the whole not trying thing back in high school with
all that teen antx crap lol so its not that magnificent...
nothing is

[Creeping Death]

Originally Posted by Worlock

Are you a Gambling man


I have not worked in years, get up when I feel like it


Own a very nice house, boat, car, truck. All paid for , Have everything I want, , I think I'll get another Guitar , already havre six, but I have been checking out this Gibson.I


used to work 7 days a week 10 to 14 hours a day, it was killing me, all the stress, walked out and locked the doors, one day, never returnrd to work, except to haull all mt shit out of the office space I rented.

Unbelivable, man. A great inspration. You robbed a bank, didn't you? Really?

[The_Great_Sage]

dude i just remembered the movie I heart huckabees . its fucking
awesome and its about living in the NOW which is an awesome way
to live. SEE THAT MOVIE MAN

[platinum]

Originally Posted by Worlock

Own a very nice house, boat, car, truck. All paid
for , Have everything I want, , I think I'll get another Guitar ,
already havre six, but I have been checking out this Gibson.

Worls, my luv

all those material things...

those mountains of things you speak of...

are what drive you and make you happy?


interesting.


oxox

platinum

[Insanoscopic]

Originally Posted by The_Great_Sage

"I heart huckabees" . its fucking awesome and its about living in the NOW which is an awesome way to live.

thisis along the same lines.. if that is your thing =D

[Synthetic]

Originally Posted by platinum

Worls, my luv

all those material things...

those mountains of things you speak of...

are what drive you and make you happy?


interesting.


oxox

platinum

Hell yes they make you happy.
Love and family doesn't make EVERYONE happy, some people prefer material things over family and love.

And by the way, I'm not sure if anyone had heard about this but this is better known as "The Law of Attraction".

Yes, it does work. All of the time. The way Warlock said it is a much more understandable way to see it.

Very nice post Warlock.