Culture - Fellow smokers

[Guttz]

Now swim should probably let every know before starting this thread that he is very very drunk. Never the less he feels like he has been cheated on. Swim has already made a few stupid posts under the influencel, nevertheless he does feels this post is correct and way more then real and justified under these circumstances.

Here's the thing. Swim has a very very good rl friend. He and his friend share almost everything about their personal life and they are very close in all matters. What did bother swim tonight was though was this. Swim always shares his weed with this close friend of his, even though swim has only got a gram of green he will still let his friend join in and share the joint. Because that is usually what his friend does for him as well.

Untill tonight, swim's friend were just about to 6gr of pure green along with 2 other guys that swim knows as well. All of them are regular stoners, they go out almost each day of the week (yes swim's smoking as gotten quite regular). But, this time. Swims friend told him he would not be invited due to not him bringing in any cash to the purchase. Now, usually when swim buys weed he invites his buddy over. No matter what, they are smoking buddy's they like to do it togeather at all times. They smoke when they have weed and they do it togeather. Where swim lives weed is extremely expensive. Imagine it costing 10what ever in your are and a gram costs 1000 where I live. That's just how things are, weed is very very expensive.

Tonight swim called his mate, swim had no cash unfortunately. His friend told him to fuck off due to the fact he had no money. Swim got extremely frustrated, he decided not to be rude to his friend so he just told him goodbye on the phone.

The question swim has in all of this, should swim keep all his weed to himself for now on seeing that his friend is not willing to share what's his when he has it or should swim still play the giving idiot and keep on giving him what he's got on his hands each time he's having something in his arms.

Right now swim is very very pissed. Swim knows he would absolutely invite his friend over to share his weed if he had some. But tonight swim's friend had some other lads over which he chose over swim. Swim doesn't really feel likle he's been through a break through relationship. It's not the typical drama. But he just feels like this friend of his is only using him for when he's got weed or when he's got cash for weed. Those are the only times swim's friend really is interested in talking to him.

What would you guys do?

ps: Swim is quite drunk while writing this. So don't take everything to seriously. But honestly. He does feel cheated and he does feel like he's getting the bad end of the stick here. What do you guys think?

Hoping for good and reliable answers.

SwiGuttz

[beejee]

swim thinks you should get a job and buy your own weed (apoligies if swiy has a job and buys swiys own weed)
on the other hand if swim and a few mates are going out to get hi, and one swimmer dosent have any bud, we'l still invite them out because were all friends and dont just use each other for their weed, quite often the person without bud is the rolling monkey and has to roll all the js.
but also if the person without bud, never has bud, refuses to buy it, yet still enjoys smoking others bud, then we do get pissed off and confront said swimmer about it.

[ollywithbeans]

It is almost a law within cannabis culture roudn here that you share and share alike, if he's not willing to do that, either explain, or fuck him off. If it's fair of course, you have to play your part too.

[Nature Boy]

Sounds like your buddy and his stoner pals may have chipped in on the 6g and didn't feel like sharing. I wouldn't blame him that much. If you went along and mooched off the weed, you might look pretty bad in the eyes of the stoner pals thus making your buddy look bad. You would have been the third wheel. Simply put, you can't always rely on other people to get a free smoke. Think of it as a bonus if someone passes you a joint. Don't demand it like someone repaying a loan.

[Fango]

the circumstance is different to smoking with just your buddy.

Your buddy may want you to be there, but its the others weed too. He cant go ahead and invite you if they have all chipped in. SWIM would be offended if your mate had payed for the 6g and then invited the others to smoke with him, but not SWIY, but they all went in.

Look at it this way, SWIY, your bud and 2 mates buy some weed, and SWIM turns up and wants in, but doesnt have cash to pay. Now, you dont know SWIM, you dont know if he will come round again, and put in that time, and for some, thats a risk that they dont want to take, esspecially if weed is a lot more pricey where you are.

SWIM shares with all, but does get pissed off when people never put in back. But he just generally avoids smoking with them anymore.