Re: Methamphetamine and sex??
I wish there was an Internet site that catered to heterosexuals who like to party and play. Gay guys get to have all the fun, and you can log in from practically anywhere and hook up if you're gay.
Heterosexuals though, not so much. Friend Finder is ok, but there's still an element of courtship that has to happen most of the time, unless the women are escorts.
Stepin Fetchit added 637 Minutes and 56 Seconds later...
I should have just posted this in the sex thread, but I was trying to respond to how people hide use from their significant other and having to fake sleeping, but I ended talking about how I handle sex at this stage in my life.
My girl lets me wake her up for sex in the middle of the night, so I'm lucky. I don't try to pretend to sleep, like make snoring noises, because she isn't listening for signs that I'm sleeping anyway. If I get really freaked I'll get up and go do something for a little bit. If she notices I just say I couldn't sleep so I went and took care of some emails and bills or something like that.
But she likes being woken up for sex, so damn, why would I get out of bed with her? I rest up for a while, zone out while holding her, try to wait as long as I can, and then I start caressing her or kissing her body and she wakes up, ready and willing. When I can sleep I will sometimes wake up and she's sucking my cock. Fantastic experience.
I say the more you worry about giving away you're spun the easier you will show that you are. Trying not to seem spun makes you look spun.
You guys and gals that think people in their thirties are too old to date are missing out, because I know way more about sex than I did when I was in my twenties, and there are girls that know about this and can recognize a good male companion by certain signals and behaviors. The secret to sex with women of this type is to nurture them sexuallymand act taken over by them, but still ravage them until they can barely handle it anymore. They will stick with it past where they normally would stop for a long time as long as you are able to get really hot and turned on.
It's over confidence, but not false confidence. You have to know in your heart that you ca.pn and will satisfy any women, and will make every attempt short of dying to try to please them, whether it's oral, using your fingers, rough, slow,talking dirty, talking sweet, etc., whatever they like you have to do. A woman in tune with herself sexually should be able to get off, but even I'd she doesnt, if you put in the kind of effort I described, she will want it again ecpven if she doesn't get off.
I can't believe I'm giving away these secrets. You all ate lucky I 'm thinking about seeing my girl today and I'm bored and rambling, cause this is some holy grail shit right here.
Last edited by Stepin Fetchit; 24-03-2012 at 13:57.
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