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inspiron
01-08-2008, 11:09
swim has a drinking problem, and i want to talk to someone about it, can anyone help her out? i think i posted this in the right forum
swim has a drinking problem, and i want to talk to someone about it, can anyone help her out? i think i posted this in the right forum
First off, just a few things since swiYour new....Please don't post the same question in a couple different forums...swiS realizes that swiY probably thought it was in the wrong section first, then tried to just do it again in the right one......In this case, probably either would have been ok, but if something is in a totally wrong forum, the Mod can fix it.
Second, swiY started out ok using the "Swim", but then didn't follow thru, and kept using "I" 's , just something to be careful of, regardless of legality (as it's probably illegal somewhere, so best to just always use these pronouns).
Third....Thread topics need to be much more descriptive, not just, hey I'm new here. In this case, maybe something like "New User needs help w/ drinking problem", or "Drinking problem!! new here and looking for help"
Finally Forth: What is it swiYour looking for??? The thread says swiY would like some help, but what is it swiY want? just to talk? A schedule of AA meetings? Directions to the nearest Booze shop? swiY need to let swiUs know so swiWe can help swiYou!
Just give a little of swiYour story...some history, some background, and where swiYa are now......and swiS is sure many will come to be by swiYour side!
Please please please don't take this as a "Flame" or as if swiSpyder is coming down on swiYou.......it's just the opposite, he just wants to help swiYou do things the right way, so the best result can be had!
please let swiMe know if swiYou have any questions/comments...or just PM if swiYa just want to talk...it's ok.....
Take care, wishing all the best............S
Spyder added 27 Minutes and 19 Seconds later...
PS: One more thing....if swiY have been a very heavy drinker for a long time, always make sure to have some form of medical supervision before trying any detox, as this can be very dangerous.......
Good luck....S
This is the right forum. Welcome. Also take note of this social group: Alcohol: Abuse, Addiction, Dependence, and Recovery Group (http://www.drugs-community.com/forum/group.php?groupid=45)
Get the details of the well known rehab centers in your area and choose the one that best fits your needs. Opt for councelling sessions and get rehabilitated at the earliest. Save her health as soon as possible.
teddybearpicnics
25-11-2008, 23:15
Swim would like to know more about your problem, swiy can keep it going in this post, or in a PM. Swim does not care, but would like to know how much was being drank, what it was swiy were drinking, if swiy was using other drugs, how old and how long the problem has been going on, and what swiy's goals are. After knowing that swim will be able to give his .02 cents much easier than his simple answer as of right now that would be..
If swiy thinks that a problem is in the makings, swim would recommend that you don't start drinking tonight, and go to this website. www.rational.org (http://www.rational.org)
Swim will try and help more once he realizes your situation, he doesn't want to talk with intentions to help you get completly clean if that's not what swiy wants, blah blah blah, more details, more help.
.teddy