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Originally Posted by bcubed
Does this apply to drugs? If a person is enjoying him/herself, does this mean use is not excessive, even if the risk of negative consequences is relatively high? Or does this give too much leeway to a user to "justify" her or his use?
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EVERY addict enjoyed him or herself at first. Although he or she may be enjoying him/herself now... its sounds like time may drastically change that.
As long as the amount/frequency of use can remain stable enough over time to continue enjoyment, then I see no problem. However this can be rare. From what swim has seen, drug use vs time tends to be linear, with a constant, positive slope (i.e. it increases consistently over time), not exponential (i.e. the RATE of increase in use - for the lack of a better word - increases).
It is due to this linear increase that drug use is allowed to become problematic before you even know it. As the increase in use tends to be constant over time, it just keeps adding up, little by little, and creeps up without notice; kind of like how you never notice that you've gotten taller until your grandma, whom you haven't seen in 6 months, says "Wow, you sure have gotten taller." It is in this very same way that people tend to figure out that their drug use is excessive - the path from recreation to addiction is so rarely noticed - addiction is nearly always found by looking at two points in time, from when they didn't do the drug to when they can't make it through the day without it.
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Originally Posted by bcubed
If a person is enjoying him/herself, does this mean use is not excessive, even if the risk of negative consequences is relatively high? Or does this give too much leeway to a user to "justify" her or his use?
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Again - EVERY addict enjoyed him or herself at first. Why else would they have continued using to the point that it became problematic? With all drug abuse, the "enjoyment" has to overshadow the fact that the "risk of negative consequences is relatively high" or else no one would do drugs...
Even the best and brightest people can trip over that thin line from enjoyment to excess. Don't let your drug use creep up on you like it did to swim, and many others. Just remind yourself -
EVERY addict enjoyed him or herself at first.